Every year we go back to school with a backpack full of resolutions: healthier meals, stricter bedtimes, better study habits, and all of those things that sound impressive when making small talk at the PTA meeting...Then we tweak it, until what we want and what we do are close enough. We left last school year in a pretty good rhythm. The boys would get up and shower, which put a melancholy, but effective, twist on bath time. I would prepare breakfast while my wife got herself out the door and off to work. Years ago I made the decision not to rely upon the quick parts of a nutritious breakfast. Meaning, we may have the occasional waffle from the toaster, but it will be covered in freshly sliced strawberries with a smoothie on the side—something that the boys often help create, assuming they get dressed in a reasonable amount of time. Then they would eat, while I made their lunch and we went over the needs of the day or discussed whatever jazz was playing in the background. At 7:30 we would walk to their schools together, and then I would run home via the scenic route. Sometimes I left the jazz on. Sometimes I stopped for coffee. After school was more of the same: a walk in reverse, snack, and play. Then chores, homework, assorted extracurricular activities, and whatever family time we could squeeze, starting with a dinner made together, and ending with a book in one hand or another. Then the rinse. Then the repeat. It is a framework, our routine, a familiar support that we make sturdier with every passing day; however, it isn’t the frame that is the focus here, but the canvas stretched within it. The school day is an opportunity to learn and laugh, to find answers and to find oneself. It is a time for friendships that may last forever, and math that is seldom seen again. It is a time of their own creating, and if that isn’t art, then I don’t know what is. The canvas is theirs for the filling. It is pretty incredible when you think about it, and that is what I will do. Every. Single. Morning. The alarm clock helps.
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